CRUISING for SEX publishes the largest free database of sex listings in the world. This is the archival blog of the late founder of the web site, Keith Griffth, who started this site.

Archives for: April 2009


Permalink 01:31:52 pm, by Cruisemaster Email
Categories: Sex, Public

Officer, Can You Direct Me to the Cruisy Part of the Park?

Perhaps Sergeant Gary Knight of the Oklahoma City Police Department needs a break. Maybe a trip to Holland and some time enjoying the beauty of De Oeverlanden park would do him some good. I know my times in De Oeverlanden were relaxing and memorable in a positive way. I had to smile today when I got notice that signs have recently been erected in advance of the summer season announcing specific areas of this wild parkland as reserved for men cruising for sex. Better yet, the signs were not put up by some pro-sex activist collective, but instead by the municipality of Slotervaart, a suburb to Amsterdam, where the park is located. Explaining the reasons for the signage, spokeswoman Manon Koffijberg said, "There are various groups of users of the park; people with small children who bathe on the beaches, those who walk their dogs, gays cruising and nature lovers. Things are arranged so that each group can relax in their own area without intruding on each other."

Perhaps Ms. Koffijberg could tour Sergeant Knight around the park and explain this rational approach to letting each of us enjoy nature and the things we choose to do with it. Not even 24 hours before word came from Holland of their refreshing approach to public sex, Sergeant Knight had been in the news for reasons also involving park sex. In Oklahoma City they'd posted photographs of the 16 men arrested in the sting operation this week at Hobie Point and Sergeant Knight had sat down for a video interview explaining why he felt compelled to send undercover police into a park to arrest men for consensual sex. The local daily posted the names and photographs of the 16 men arrested, ranging in age from 20 to 61.

In watching the video of Sergeant Knight I found it especially interesting how he spent so much time justifying why this had to be done undercover. All this out-in-the-open public sex would have been harder to find had cops not been posing as cruisers, too. Public sex that can't be found without going undercover just doesn't seem very likely to be a problem for bird-watchers, mothers pushing strollers, and others also using the park. But then this assumes sex in the great outdoors is always wrong and I don't believe that for one minute. Judging from the actions of straight people who constantly embrace public sex and even some polling data supporting it, the population of the USA just might agree this was not only a waste of police resources, but an abuse of power, too. But then again there are so few ways to put down the fags these days, what with marriage encroaching on even "The Heartland" that homophobes have to get their kicks where they can.

I hope I live long enough to see more rational thinking about park sex in the USA. Perhaps someday Sergeant Knight will find himself sending someone into Hobie Point to erect signage directing you to the cruisy part of the park. But then if that happens, what need would there be for CRUISING for SEX?!


Permalink 11:28:13 am, by Cruisemaster Email
Categories: Buddy List

Best Buddies

We have three winners in our Buddy List contest. These CRUISING for SEX members took the extra effort this last month to add more buddies to their buddy list and they'll be getting our cash and porn prizes. Congrats guys!

1st place winner: thedragon1959 joined CRUISING for SEX back in April 2005. Our winner lives in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, is bisexual, versatile, and looking for fuck buddies. Check his profile at thedragon1959 and send him a note of congratulations for winning $500 in our Buddy List contest.

2nd place winner: 1stAndThenSomeMore is in Laurel, Maryland, is looking for quick sex and prefers fem guys: "a big cock under panties or womens clothing is an extra turn-on." 1stAndThenSomeMore gets to greatly expand his porn library. We'll be asking him to select 6 DVD's from the CFS Porn catalog, a $228 value.

3rd place winner: Tied for 3rd place are Get_Fed and like2foolaround. Get_Fed is in Little Rock, Arkansas, describes himself as 'alternative' and a top looking for quick sex. like2foolaround has been a member since 2002, says he is a businessman in Tennessee into quick sex. He is versatile. Both 3rd place winners get to select 3 DVD's from the CFS Porn catalog, a $114 value.

Congratulations to each of you! We'll host another Buddy List contest this summer but you can continue adding buddies and be ahead of the game for our next contest.

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