All Sex Listings from the week are online, even those that came in as late as 2 pm PST today. This one caught my eye for purely personal reasons, which is that I've had a craving for muscle bear lately:

Florida Orlando: Hanks Bar, 5026 Edgewater. Cruise bar with dark room. This update added January, 2009: "This place rocks. There’s a small bar area with a large outdoor patio. Within minutes of getting there I had a big bear cock in my mouth. Sucked on about five dicks in the span of a few hours. No fuss, out in the open, but hot!"

Then there's this:

Arizona Phoenix: Royal Villa II Motel , 4312 N. 12th Street. Motel with bathhouse-type action. This update added January, 2009: "I should have read these posts first. The place was sad. There was a guy with a really nasty attitude at the desk. I took my money back and went up the road to the other gay motel."

Of course what you like someone else may not but the Sex Listings can usually help someone avoid a total disaster and waste of time and money. Sheesh. The money. Baths and clubs and places like this motel are not inexpensive. Even if you don't have the best time if you at least read up before going somewhere it takes some of the sting out of wasted cash. And do the next guy a favor and comment on your experience.

Example #579,468 on why we editing the Sex Listings:

guard chris after 11 pm suckscock drives a gold suv

Bitter ex posting that? Or maybe just someone who doesn't stop to think it's not their place to share someone's name, occupation, type and color of car, and the time he can be found at a certain public place sucking cock? If "Chris" himself wants to post a full-body-including-face nude pic superimposed on his credit report that's his business. But this is not cool and I promise we won't let this happen to you on CFS.

I'm always amused at the stones cast when it comes to sex:

New York New York City: College Point Video, 36-05 College Point Blvd., Flushing, Queens. Bookstore with arcade. This update added January, 2009: "I was there in December and as others have said, there was a sickly youngish type guy getting fucked bareback and sucking every cock that came through the gloryholes. This guy was fucked at least three times bareback and sucked as many others in the forty-five minutes I was there. Still, it was crowded (midday) and a few were in uniform. I got my mouth around a hot Italian guy with a meaty dick wearing a wedding ring and a UPS type uniform. Hot."

Or, shorter: "I'm only going to take this married man's dick out of my mouth long enough to be a moral scold."

As always, I'm not saying advocating safe sex is something bad or inherently intrusive upon someone's right to make their own choices about sexual practices. But being an advocate often works best when you're being more than a scold, especially one lacking any sense of irony. I mean, I'm guessing the wives of these men are just as disapproving that this dude is sucking their husbands' dicks as he is at someone taking it bareback. And I do happen to think if you want to advocate safe sex the best place to do it is at the bathhouse or bookstore simply by saying before he puts it in your ass (or mouth depending on your risk comfort), "I have some condoms if you don't have any." Patterns of behavior in sex-charged moments will work better than any ad campaign or all the online griping and judgment in the world. That said, I'm still in favor of thorough sex ed and then only concerning myself with my own choices.

What did I just say about individual choices and judgment? I take it back:

This place is filthy, and I have to admit that I have gotten VD there twice last year.

It reminds me of this BBQ at my grandparents' house when I was a kid. A yard full of all kinds of lawn chairs yet my Grandma kept choosing those with high backs, plopping down and smacking the back of her head on the top of the aluminum frame. Each time she'd exclaim, "I hate these high-back chairs!" It went on like that all afternoon and evening. God love her, and god bless this fellow with the VD, but WTF? Case studies against aversion therapy, I guess.

I should probably stop talking about my Grandma here. She's gone to heaven (or at least somewhere without high-backed lawn furniture, I hope) nearly ten years ago now but it's still an uncomfortable and strange tangent for sex blog. (Sorry, Grandma!) Here is the list of updated Sex Listings this week. Enjoy the weekend, gentlemen.

Sex Listings...

US
Alabama Muscle Shoals
Arizona Phoenix, Tucson
Arkansas Little Rock
California - Northern Sacramento, San Francisco, San Jose
California - Southern Los Angeles, Orange County, Palm Springs, Riverside and San Bernardino Counties, San Diego
Colorado Colorado Springs, Denver
Connecticut East Haven, Hamden, Hartford, Plainfield, Waterbury
Florida Destin, Fort Lauderdale, Key West, Miami, Orlando, Tampa Bay
Georgia Atlanta
Hawaii Honolulu
Illinois Brooklyn, Chicago, Ottawa, Quincy
Indiana Dale, Osceola
Iowa Clinton, Waterloo
Louisiana Leesville, New Orleans, Pineville
Maryland Baltimore, Greenbelt, Salisbury
Massachusetts Boston, Lowell
Michigan Detroit
Minnesota Minneapolis
Missouri Kansas City, Parshley, Reeds, Sweet Springs
Nevada Las Vegas
New Jersey Avenel, Newark/Jersey City, Union, West Caldwell, Woodbridge
New York Long Island, New York City, Port Chester, Poughkeepsie
North Carolina Asheville, Boone
Ohio Cleveland, Dayton
Oklahoma Ardmore
Pennsylvania Altoona, Bartonsville, Bethlehem, Exton, Martins Creek, Philadelphia
Rhode Island Providence
South Carolina Charleston, Greenville, Myrtle Beach, Spartanburg
Tennessee Gatlinburg, Nashville, Shelbyville
Texas - Eastern Corsicana, Dallas, Houston, Lindale, San Antonio
Texas - Western Amarillo
Virginia Ladysmith
Utah Provo
Washington Seattle
Wisconsin Lyndon Station

ELSEWHERE
Australia Sydney (New South Wales)
England Bath (Bristol), Dewsbury (West Yorkshire), Manchester (Manchester)
Guam Tamuning
Mexico Puerto Vallarta
New Zealand Queenstown
Thailand Bangkok
Wales Cardiff (Cardiff), Newport (Newport)